@violet right when my brain is doing an anxiety cuz of other queers doing loud drama i get an explanation for all this! there is a goddess

@velexiraptor perhaps. We've certainly noticed this ourself outside Fedi, the bigger question we have is what can we do about it? Explanation is good, but, there's gotta be some way we can act in order to, well, not even a little fix, but improve the situation.

@velexiraptor (for reasons unrelated to whatever current meta is happening)

This is basically what I say every time i get into discussions about why queers are mean to each other and implode their own communities: they're traumatized. hurt people hurt people.

We deserve better, though. It's high time queers did the hard work of unlearning their fear response to conflict, the black and white thinking, and LOVE EACH OTHER above all else. ✊🏳️‍🌈

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