pros of being polyam is if youre too mentally worn out to comfort ur gf you can just have your fiancee do it
@bewitchyourmind poly is small scale emotional/physical communism and I love it
@Jewbacchus also financial because 3 people living in one space (hopefully soon) while we all tag team financial burden and issues bc not everyone has the same monetary ability as the other and its important to support
@bewitchyourmind poly cohabitation is so admirable and hard to get to, congrats!
@Jewbacchus i cant wait, yall will get a lot of domestic lesbian updates.
@bewitchyourmind tbh works within relationship anarchy for me, friends, loved ones and all, just, there for each other if one is unavailable... tbh it's sweet as heck
@LottieVixen im a little hesitant abt relationship anarchy PERSONALLY (if it works for someone else im happy) bc my abusive ex used it as a means to cheat without consequences
@bewitchyourmind eugh gosh okay erm... gosh heck to me... if I may explain, I can fill it in.
it's certainly not cheating (by any definition I know)
if you're up for listening. I'm up for telling because it was hard for me to understand at first.
@LottieVixen sure, feel free to slide into dms
(also i dont mean to say it is cheating, but she tried to convince us so that SHE could break our boundaries and not allow us to have feelings about it, if that makes sense?
@bewitchyourmind oh gosh that is terrible... eugh I'm sorry, I will take this to DMs
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