i know it's irrational but it's hard not to take getting instance blocked as a personal/collective punishment.
being here makes me a bit anxious now because of how much vitriol is being spewed at the instance, but leaving would make me far more anxious - moving, even metaphysically and abstractly, takes a huge toll on my well-being. like, this is a place i sometimes leave for months at a time but it's still...a kind of home, you know?
i don't know what to do here. maybe sleeping on it will help
@CYBEReris I don't think it's irrational. I do think defederation is a collective punishment
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